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violent or aggressive behavior within the home, typically involving the violent abuse of a spouse or partner.

the perpetration or threat of an act of violence by at least one member of an unmarried couple on the other member in the context of dating or courtship

Domestic violence can also be known as intimate partner violence or domestic abuse

a social psychological theory that states that individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim in presence of other people, usually because they believe someone else will help

the ability to critically analyze stories presented in the mass media & to determine their accuracy or credibility. This is extremely important because of how abuse is often represented in the media 

intentional bodily injury from a partner

use of manipulation, undermining self worth, gaslighting etc to exert control

controlling or limiting the use of economic resources

use of intimidation, threats, destruction of property etc to exert control

ultimately it is up to the survivor to decide if they want to pursue legal action, but you can always encourage them to report. 

Promote and uplift those who have chosen to share their stories. Let them know that you believe them and support them.

Remind them that their abuse is not their fault.

Always believe your friends. Avoid asking insensitive questions and accept the information that is freely given

Statements that press your personal opinions on the best course of action moving forward are usually not helpful. Avoid things like 'You should press charges' or 'You should've left sooner'.

Statements that shift the blame from the perpetrator to the victim, such as 'well why didn't you just leave?'.